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Baby Steps

2022.01.23

When you’re a kid you don’t think about being a kid—you’re just a kid. It’s not until you get older that you become a little more aware, and maybe the “kid stuff” turns into “older kid stuff” or “teenage stuff” or, worst of all, “adult stuff.” With my kids, I’m reminded daily of the “kid stuff” and how I need to be more patient in understanding where they’re at. It becomes harder to do that when so much time has passed since I was their age.

 

Why share this at a university that is filled with students who don’t have kids? Because it is easy to forget where we came from. At this time, my kids couldn’t even get out of their bedroom if my wife and I didn’t pick them up and take them out. We do not remember life from that time, but that is what happens when we grow up: we forget how much we’ve grown.

 

I know that my kids will not remember much from this time. They may not remember the “what” from this time in their life but the “how.” Their impression of me and their mom will be made clearer, and, later, their feelings about the outside world will also be shaped. Will they be excited or fearful about the real world? A lot of that starts from the time when “the real world” for them is the play area in our home and getting a chance to see the other rooms from their height (or when we go on errands with them strapped to our chests). We can help shape those feelings up to a point, but it’s better for them to determine it for themselves.

        

Life can be like that. You are left to wonder how something is a certain way, but you cannot be given the answer to everything. You have to find things out for yourself. Maybe you are ready for that, or maybe you just want to be told what to do. Regardless of how you feel about stepping out into the unknown, it may help to think back on where you started out and how far you’ve already come. A few more baby steps are fine—just keep moving forward.

 

 

Photo Credit: Kateryna Babaieva @pexels.com

 

 

Blog Quiz

Q1. Why should we remember how we were when we were young?

Q2. What is something the author's kids cannot do on their own?

Q3. How can life be difficult when we get older?

 

 

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Quiz Answers

Q1. To remember how much we've grown

Q2. Getting out of their bedroom

Q3. We have to find answers on our own.

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