教員コラムBlog

  1. home
  2. 教員コラム / Blog
  3. 詳細 / Detail

Health Limits

2024.04.01

Photo Credit: Cottonbro Studio @pexels.com


One of the realities of getting older is knowing when you can reach your limit in certain areas. Whether it’s the ability or interest to try something new, or not adopting certain things that become a norm from year to year, it can be a blessing or a curse. I have learned about myself that a lot of things I may not show much interest in these days are largely because there are so many other things pulling my attention. I don’t necessarily doubt my ability to do something because of my age, but there are simply other things already in my orbit.

 

My family is one of those spheres orbiting my life, in particular my kids. For them, I am thankful they haven’t learned the idea of limits yet. That doesn’t mean my wife and I just let them run around, stalking the neighborhood like wild animals. Rather, we try not to stifle their interests before they realize what they want. Children’s lives do not need to be an amendment to their parents—they have their own lives that need to be understood on their own terms.

 

At the same time, there are some limits that are healthy for kids to have and wouldn’t hinder their imagination. The biggest one lately is my kids simply slowing down and resting. They currently still need to take naps. When they don’t, they are floating in the wind, bouncing around and responding to even the least little things. The fact that they are twins only heightens their reactions since they are also repeatedly bouncing off each other.

 

What does it mean for my kids to learn the limits of their bodies, those times in their day where it’s “okay” to take it easy and rest? As much as this is something for my young kids to learn, the world continues to pull at us to react strongly to anything and everything, to jump to conclusions without taking a breather or questioning what we’re doing. The world sometimes invites us to fall into the habits we had as children when we were weaker and less in control of ourselves.

 

During those times when we’re confronted with something new, we’re invited to be young children again. We don’t always take the time to question what we’re doing or why, or how far we should go. What makes the difference for me when I get older is knowing when to let go and move onto something else, and when it’s something worth fighting for. Then, it’s not about limits so much as it is understanding what’s most important, and that cannot really be taught.

 

 

Blog Questions:

1.     Why does the author not put many limits on his kids?

A.   His kids do not yet know what they are interested in

B.   His kids do not do many things

C.   His kids are too old

2.     How does life currently make us act more like children?

A.   We are childish people around those we love

B.    By people making decisions for us

C.    By reacting to everything without thinking about it; information overload

3.     What is different about limits when you get older?

A.   People have different hobbies when they are young

B.    Knowing when to let go and when to fight

C.    When you get older, you forget your limits

 

Scroll down for the answers to the quiz.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Answers:

1.       A - his kids do not yet know what they’re interested in

2.       C - by reacting to everything without thinking about it; information overload

3.       B - knowing when to let go and when to fight

戻る / go back

Related posts